“What makes me feel terrible is the fact that I told him outright that I like him. His silence hurt me. I wondered where I went wrong?” Emanuela wrote to me
In this article, you will discover some reasons why you should never chase a man!
If you are not careful, you risk being rejected, without really admitting to yourself that it happened. When a woman is chasing a man, she risks feeling: ugly, stupid and a victim. The fact that he always has other commitments is clear that he does not like this woman.
Here are some reasons why you should not chase a man:
The mistake that many women often make is to get to know a man and make it clear to him that they find him beautiful. If he does not take the bait, they start chasing him by calling him a hundred times a day or sending him lots of messages. At that point he will not respond, he is not very interested or he is dating another woman. Often his lack of interest is due to the fact that you have done all the work.
If you’re asking me: how to deal with an indecisive man? The hardest thing is to do nothing. We women like to make phone calls and plans, organize everything. When you’ve been the hunter, you always end up feeling worse.
Don’t chase a man, contact him twice in a row, thinking you can convince him or look for him when he could have looked for you.
He uses silence after a night of sex spent together. You have the impression that if you don’t take the initiative, he won’t look for you. And the questions you ask yourself because he’s indecisive, all of this leaves you with a sense of emptiness, sadness and anxiety.
Do you need a man to prove to yourself that you’re worthy?
Rejection is more painful for us women than for a man. When a man is rejected, he doesn’t like it at all, but he rarely gets as depressed as we women. A woman is seen as obsessive and desperate when she chases a man.
We feel uncomfortable about chasing a man we like. If you have had sex with him, it counts in his favor, because it increases your desire to see him. Many women sleep with the man they want, believing that they are forcing him to do something more.
Oxytocin, the attachment hormone, is released in correlation with orgasm and physical pleasure. Oxytocin gives a sense of intimacy, attachment and trust.
We women release it during sex, which is why we tend to show more signs of attachment after we have slept with a man. When he doesn’t call you or doesn’t look for you, you feel bad because you have created an attachment after sex. If you end up having sex with him, try to resist the temptation to chase a man. When you want to look for him, try to do something else, but don’t text him!
If a man you like doesn’t show much interest in you, ask yourself if he’s really worth looking for?
A man becomes attractive to you because he doesn’t want to date you. That’s why you want him. He seems sexier! An indecisive man always looks for an attractive woman. Always be exceptional! An indecisive man is easily scared. Learn to put him at ease and make sure he doesn’t see you in the worst light.
The obstacles that exist when you want to conquer a man, exist only in your mind, the obstacles must be removed. The obstacles prevent you from making the important and necessary decisions in a relationship with the man you desire. The obstacles you are perceiving are simply illusions.
By taking courage, continuing to insist and making wise decisions you will be able to conquer the man you desire. The obstacles to a man’s heart can be removed thanks to strength of character and motivation. Don’t let fear stand in your way of happiness and love!
