It must be recognized that a man is less in a hurry to formalize things. Some need to take their time before committing.
When a man is looking for a serious relationship, when he really wants to commit to a woman, he is not in a hurry, on the contrary, he will really try to take his time. Even if he likes being with you, that little detail that would really make you his woman is missing. That is why you need to remove his blocks and work on the mechanisms of the unconscious.
A man thinks that sometimes it is better to wait until he is sure rather than launch into a story and be disappointed a few weeks later. Also, you do not want a man who doubts, you want him to trust himself, you and your love story …
You are about to discover why a man does not want to commit:
He doesn’t think it will last.
He is interested in you, but there is still something that tells him that it will not go anywhere. Sometimes, however, it is not what you say, but rather how he sees your life. If he does not see a future with you, know that it is not up to you to convince him otherwise.
A man who does not want to commit in order to avoid the negative aspects of life together. He does not see the positive aspects of life together and therefore this makes him doubt. You have to realize that it is simply his vision of the couple that is not opposed to yours, but simply different.
He is waiting for the right woman for him
There is a possibility that this man will only keep you as a friend with benefits, until a girl comes along who he thinks is better for him. It is not that he is not ready for a relationship right now, he is simply not ready for a relationship with you. And that is a huge difference.
He wants something serious, but he expects something else, he expects more. And so you need to understand his needs to get him to be on the same page. So, rather than letting your frustration out and arguing with him, think about how you can show him that he will be happy with you. Maybe he is waiting for a woman who meets his standards. The point is that he does not see you as the right woman for him. However, this does not mean that you should question your value just because he does not see it.
He is incapable of love
There are men who do not have the capacity to love. A man who can never fully commit, no matter how much sacrifice you make for him. If this is the case with your man, you need to know that there is nothing wrong with you. He is simply an emotionally unavailable man and there is nothing you can do about it.
Physical attraction may not be enough to commit, your attitude may make him doubt. There are many reasons that can prevent a man from committing.
However, this does not mean that you have to give up. In these conditions, you can show him through strong actions that you can be the right woman for him. Falling in love with a man who doesn’t want to commit can be very challenging and can lead to a lot of heartache.
I Don’t Want to Be Faithful
One of the reasons most men say they don’t want a serious relationship is because they need to mess around.
When a man tells you he’s not looking for a serious relationship, he actually wants to continue living his bachelor life and have sex with other women. However, just having a sexual history with you doesn’t put any obligations on him.
As much as you don’t want to hear it, the truth is that if you act like a friend with benefits, he doesn’t have an obligation to be faithful to you. This is something we fear more than anything: wanting to be the girlfriend of the man we love when all he wants is to be your friend with benefits.
A man with commitment issues will avoid talking about the future with you. If he’s dating a woman and it seems like things are getting more serious, he might disappear to show that he still has his independence.
Many of the men I meet who are commitment phobic will say things like, “I’m just having fun right now,” or “I don’t like to put labels on things.” This keeps him safe. This doesn’t mean he doesn’t have feelings for you, it means he doesn’t want to suddenly find himself in a serious relationship.
In my work, I often meet women who come to me for help because they’ve fallen in love with a man who doesn’t want to commit. They’re frustrated and unsure about their situation, and they have no idea what to do. They worry that if they pull away and try to use some techniques to make him want you, he’ll happily walk away. Remember, stop chasing him, pull away to see if he wants to chase you.
No man will ever chase a woman who is clingy, irritable, and desperate, who won’t stop talking about commitment, living together, marriage, or kids. He might put up with it for a while, but it will never get him to commit if that’s your long-term strategy. You have to be the high value woman that every man wants to commit to and that takes courage and working on your self-confidence, day after day!
