He sees you only as a friend with benefits, but when he meets a special girl he will respect her enough to call her his woman. He must see you as a woman of value, not an object that he can throw away when he is done having sex.
There are women who will do anything to attract and keep the man they want. This is why a woman clings to a man: during the sexual act a girl releases oxytocin, nicknamed the love hormone, a feel-good hormone that helps develop a bond with him.
The man who has sex should be interested in your well-being and pleasure. Without affectionate gestures, sex becomes a business transaction rather than an intimate encounter. If you have had a worse day and he continues to try, it is clear that he does not care about you. Asking for sexual favors when you are feeling bad is not only inappropriate, but shows an absolute lack of respect. Having sex is a man’s obsession and often he cannot do without it.
When he casts his poisonous nets, he is bound to catch a few crumbs.
If you are suffering because he only wants a sex story, it is a sign that he is only interested in getting to know you on a sexual level. A guy you like expresses the desire to tear off your clothes and maybe it can turn you on, but if a man is truly interested in you, he will take you out instead of calling you after midnight just to see if you are available. Do not confuse late-night hookups with a real relationship.
You are just a friend with benefits when the man you like acts with you as if you are one of those who allows him access to sexual intimacy when he feels like it. There must be more to a love story than what happens between midnight and the morning.
Imagine the scene: you have had sex with the man you like, you go to the bathroom and when you come out he is fully dressed. You have just been dismissed, you are just a friend with benefits.
He may excuse himself for needing to sleep alone, waiting for you to leave or he leaves, well you can forget about becoming his girlfriend. Even if you spend the night at his place against his wishes, you will find yourself in an embarrassing state the next morning with an attitude from him.
A man will only respect you to the extent that you respect yourself. So walk tall and be confident in demanding the treatment you deserve.
I know so many smart and pretty women who are wasting years of their lives dating men who only treat them as a fuck buddy.
Even though he is sometimes rude, she considers him the love of her life. Despite everything, something in these women’s minds pushes them to share the idealized vision of that man. When I found myself asking for more information about these types of men, I got an answer like this:
Is he physically attractive?
No
Does he make your life better?
No
Is he interesting?
No
Is he nice?
No
You should avoid an insecure man, because you may find yourself being a fuck buddy for a long time.
I know it’s not easy to distinguish between an insecure and a confident man. The important thing you need to know is that when you start dating a man, you need to try to understand which category he falls into!
The insecure man is a manipulator of women, who only wants to have sex to feed his EGO. The insecure man is part of the category of men who make a woman fall in love with him just for fun, and for whom a woman is nothing more than a conquest.
My goal in life is to help women conquer true love, I have created many courses on this topic and I continue to do research and find new advice and strategies, but before applying the conquest strategies you must ask yourself if it’s worth it? Is he the man you want by your side for life?
If after many attempts to change the situation, he continues to treat you only as a friend with benefits, then it’s better that he doesn’t become part of your life. It wouldn’t bring anything good! Don’t agree to be a friend with benefits for too long, because you deserve more.
A man has to want to know to create a love story and if he doesn’t, stop playing the game. Don’t call him anymore, don’t see him anymore, don’t answer his calls anymore, but most importantly, DON’T HAVE SEX WITH HIM anymore. Unless he’s a real idiot, but when you make him understand that you don’t want to play the game anymore, that you don’t want to be just a friend with benefits anymore, if he really cares, he will treat you with respect.
