What feelings do you experience, when you see a charming and sexy man? Do you immediately compare him with your man? Do you always want something more being insatiable? Have you ever thought that your girlfriend or colleague has a wonderful relationship, while your relationship is probably wrong? If the answer is yes, then this way of thinking denatures probably the reality. You see only a part of story, and your imagination hyperbolizes its content. That attractive man becomes in an instant the Prince Charming, and you end up comparing him to your man.
My darling, when you start dreaming about another man, you unconsciously compare him with your man in your imagination and in reality. “ My life would be more perfect with another man” – I have heard this phrase a lot of times. There are cases into which a man cannot be perfect, but it is like an exception from rules. Remember that a single thought of this kind stops you from absolutely enjoying the things you have and to bring more love in the relationship.
Imagination plays an important role in your life. You make use of the imagination power in order to wake up a man’s interest. But if you are willing to build up a happy relationship, why not to redirect imagination towards your man?
Begin to enjoy the fruits of your relationship accepting the fact that each relationship has its weak points, as no living man can be the definition of perfection. When you start to think about better life situation or how your life would be with another man, the only thing you do is encouraging frustration and dissatisfaction feelings.
The other man seems better in fantasy and not in reality. A new man can be special, but everyone has his own imperfections and problems. Choose your man definitely and start the improvement road. Remember: there are no ideal men, thus learn to appreciate and to improve your inner garden through daily love and gratitude expressions, the flowers blossoming as result of your hard work in this direction will have an unique, rare and special beauty. It is not constructive to think about the portray of perfect man, because it is in fact unreal. If you are convinced that your man was wrong choice, then break up is the best option for the two of you. It is not something normal when you complain about everything, but unhappy life with the man of your dreams is also wrong.
Your man has nice qualities too, take them in consideration with honesty and realism. If you tend to think that the grass from the neighbor’s garden is greener, stop and ask yourself: what lacks in my relationship so that I think about the other men? Maybe your relationship just got stuck in the routine? My darling, there is no man or ideal life style without dark shades. Return to your relationship and reality, find happiness in the activities you used to do together and discover the wonderful personality of your man. Appreciate and love the things you have, then you will probably notice that the grass from your neighbor’s garden is not always greener.
