The reasons many women are still single:
One of the reasons is the error of repeating the same mistakes again. He abandoned you because you were not a suitable woman into his eyes, but it does not mean you cannot be a suitable match for other men. Stop with the fear blocking you from inside and not letting you to build up a new relationship.
Brazil, Australia, Egypt…do you have big personal projects? A relationship means you should stay there in the city, in a rather small and narrow city.
The other reason is that you do not want to share your place with a man. You have already built your own universe that you do not want to share with the other people. A relationship means Sharing house, feelings and your life projects. You do not need in your life someone telling you not to eat spaghetti with tomatoes daily or asking why the table has not been served yet. You do not need someone who will dictate you what you must and what you must not do.
You should not care too much about a man who has lost his job nor supporting his immature behavior. This system of thinking is more specific for men, but there are women that consider boring making sex with the same person during all their life, they feel the need to explore their sexuality more.
Are you searching for your own individuality? When you will get to know the true woman inside of you and what you really want to get in your life, you will be ready to meet the man of your dreams.
Another reason explaining your loneliness is the possibility that you want only to be with the suitable match into your eyes. This is a positive thing because the fact of being with the wrong man is the worst waist of your time and energy.
Paula has written to me: “ Each time I hear the sound of Emanuela’s voice, who is my friend, I can hear simultaneously the children shoutings and her man complaining. Thus I lose soon any desire of serious relationship.” This is another reason explaining loneliness of many women, not because they are unwilling to build up a family, but because they feel confused in front of such a “horrible” perspective.
But the explanation no.1 is that you simply haven’t met yet the suitable man, the one letting you have your own space, the one who knows well how to calm down the child when it is crying and who never puts any obstacles in front of your interests and hobbies. Think about the fact that about a half of Italian men are still single. A suitable man is waiting for you somewhere and you will meet him when you will feel well- prepared from mental, spiritual and emotional points of view.
You always get what you expect, the thoughts have the ability to materialize. You should always protect your mind from hesitations, because they represent a dangerous vibe. For example, avoid thinking that all men are the same assholes or leave alone the inner troubles that you have failed to meet the right man. When you feed your doubts, in reality you build up the image of the things you try to avoid. If you keep the image of lonely and depressed woman, this thing could materialize in real life. However if you imagine a happy relationship with a nice man, one day you will see this image coming into life.
You are the one who you believe to be!
Napoleon Hill — ‘Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.’
Maybe now there are no men around you who can open in front of you the door of the car, think instead of the man who keeps “the gates of the soul” open.
If you expect from him knight manners and actions, he might think you ask for too much. Many men do not get that the courtesy is the best way to leave a nice impression. Men want to obtain everything in more simple way. In order to find the man of your life, you should build up into your mind the image of suitable man and of your happy romance, think that one day you will be rewarded.
