If you date a man behaving in a childish way, it means you date someone affected by Peter Pan Syndrome. You cannot have a love story with a man who is able of doing something offensive only because of his desire.
A man affected by Peter Pan Syndrome can make you blush of shame in different ways, for e.g. by showing unsuitable sense of humor during private dinner in a luxury restaurant. It is common thing for him to cry on the street like a two-year child, but considering that he has turned thirty, that sounds horrible…
I talk about a man with infantile attitude towards life. If your other half is eager to spend 5 hours with headphones at video games or 10 hours at gym, it is not exactly what you are expecting in a relationship. No future, no development, no hope…
A man affected by Peter Pan Syndrome behaves like there is no notion of time, he can ignore future, because he will always live happy and satisfied on a surreal island. You can try supporting him, but future plans must be real, if you are willing to grow up reciprocally.
If, for e.g., you ask him for a piece of advice regarding requirement of better wages, a Peter Pan man provides this kind of reply:” put on a sexy dress”. A child in this case would provide better solution. Peter Pan man is infantile from emotional point of view, crying always on your shoulder, while you need a man supporting you in difficult moments, thus not this type.
He can still play with specific body parts, and if your lover keeps on exploring his body like a curious child, there is something wrong with him. A couple relationship works perfectly when each of partners keeps his own space. Think if his attitude is caused by the fact he enjoys spending time with you, or he just needs a tutor.
Peter Pan Syndrome has a negative impact upon your relationship. His childish inclinations being expressed daily through the way he deals with others, his manner of sorting out conflicts and his reaction to different tournaments of life. This kind of man puts his hand on everything you give him, focusing only on more requirements from your part. You risk of conforming to his requirements, making him put no efforts in relationship.
