Do you want to keep your man’s eyes on you and only you?
Would you like to make a man fall in love with you?
If so, you’ve come to the right place! There are a few things a woman can do to attract men. The good news is that these techniques have nothing to do with physical appearance, but rather with attitude.
Once you manage to put yourself in the right mindset, not only will you have his attention, but like a puppy in love, he will not leave you. Here’s what you need to do to keep a man in love forever:
Be mysterious! If you are the type of woman who shares everything from your childhood memories to your deepest secrets, then he won’t have to call you. Instead of revealing everything, it’s important that you hide some information and keep looking for more. Reveal yourself little by little!
Be positive! Men are attracted to a happy and outgoing woman. Emotions in general are contagious. If you are negative or pessimistic, those feelings will also affect your date. You need to show yourself as something vital in his life!
“A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous.” – Coco Chanel
To keep a man, it pays to have the right habits in a relationship. Most men don’t know exactly how to express their feelings. So sometimes it can be difficult for him to let you know his emotional and physical needs. And this leads to all kinds of misunderstandings and unmet expectations, which pushes a man away.
Stop chasing a man!
And believe me, wonderful things will start to happen. For starters, your man will start to respect you more and it will also be a great boost for your self-esteem. This tactic will bring him back to you sooner than you think.
He will be afraid of losing you and will start chasing you for a change!
He will start chasing you! He will think about how much it was nice to spend time with you, how much it meant to him to have you in his life. He will remember the times you had fun together and of course he will want to relive them again.
Apply the No Contact rule and stop texting and calling him. Stop giving him attention and start acting like a treat. This will activate the panic button in his brain that he is losing you and his hunting mode will kick in.
Once some time has passed and you are willing to respond, be careful not to be so easily available to him. Make him miss you by alternating great times spent together and apart. He needs to feel that your time is precious and that he has to work harder to get your attention.
The new you is busy! Be the first to end conversations, don’t wait for him to get bored. This distant behavior is actually what he wants. You’re sending him the message: I’ve changed!
To win him over, try to have positive interactions with a man and leave a great impression on him. Give him your attention based on his efforts to impress you.
Things you should avoid doing if you want to increase your chances of success!
The first thing I want you to avoid is smothering him by constantly wanting to hang out, always texting him, and not giving him room to breathe. This can be a huge obstacle to making him fall in love and leads to clinginess and neediness, which are also things a man shys away from.
Don’t be too easy to get, because men like exciting challenges. You don’t have to be at his beck and call!
Don’t be too needy or too attached to him! A man is much less likely to chase if a woman seems needy by her presence. A hard-to-get woman isn’t necessarily uninterested, just busy.
Being busy (and not just pretending, but actually being busy) allows you to take more time to respond to texts and phone calls. It also forces a man to do his best to impress you. Don’t be available for him all the time.
Don’t put him on a pedestal!
Stop being jealous! Sometimes the fear of losing the man you love can make you possessive, so be careful!
Increase your complicity with him! Complicity is one of the most important elements of falling in love. It’s not something that happens right away, but the process of building it can be a lot of fun.
The key is to share experiences that bring you closer and have meaningful conversations that let him into your world. Have fun creating memories together that will make you smile.
Share funny stories about things that have happened to you and show him that time spent with you is always fun. Ask him questions and invite him to share with you. Show him that you care about who he is and what brings him joy.
As the feelings between you grow stronger, the complicity will grow. It will be important to maintain it and ensure that communication is open and honest.