The secret to keeping a man hooked on you is to keep chasing you. If you feel like he’s not chasing you, isn’t trying to impress you, and just seems bored or resentful of the relationship, then it’s time to take a step back. He needs his independence right now and you need to give it to him.
But if you’re afraid that he might cheat on you or leave you for another woman, he won’t leave you… if you make him worry about losing you. In this article, you’ll find out how to make a man worry about losing you!
You’re about to discover 5 tips on how to make a man worry about losing you:
1. Make him jealous
Aside from changing your appearance, it would be great if you could be a little mysterious as well. When a man is worried about losing you, he’ll be jealous of every other guy who comes near him. He’ll get annoyed every time he sees you make eye contact or say hello to another guy. He probably won’t say anything. He’ll just ask if this is your friend or coworker.
It’s clear that she wants to know more about this guy so she can figure out if he’s a threat or not. On the other hand, when a man isn’t afraid of losing you, he couldn’t care less if you flirt with another man. I just want him to see that you could replace him in no time.
Simply talking about how attractive or funny another man is is a way to make him jealous. Some women even choose to start flirting with other men in front of him. I would advise you not to do this. Most women make mistakes and it can create a lot of resentment in a man.
Instead, you should make him jealous and compete for your time and attention away from him. You should create an abundance of connection with other people, including other men, coworkers, friends, friends of friends, etc. Let him work harder to impress you and fight for your attention and time with him.
2. Make him work harder to get your attention
If you are within reach of this man, no matter what he does, he will start to take you for granted.
You reply to his texts within seconds, you are never busy when he calls and even when you have a fight you are the first to apologize the next day. Do you expect this man to think about the possibility of you leaving him? You are always there, like his puppy.
You may think that this is one of the things a man wants: a woman who is at his disposal, but trust me, he does not fall in love with this type of girl. Don’t be there for him waiting for him! Do the opposite and get busy with your life. For starters, stop replying to his texts so quickly.
How to make him worry about losing you? The next time he calls you for a date, tell him that you are sorry, but your schedule is full. Let him know that he is not your only priority in life. Make him compete for your attention and never let him win completely. Give him his independence as he has requested, but move on with your life.
Make yourself unavailable by scheduling entire days of activities. Letting him know that he can’t have you whenever he wants is the best way to reaffirm your value. I know this might sound harsh, but trust me, it works for every man.
3. Look your best and drive him crazy
If things are slowing down between you, it’s time to improve yourself. Start taking vacations without him. Take up a new hobby or get a promotion. Do things to improve yourself, make yourself want more… The more successful you seem to be without him, the more he’ll be afraid of losing you.
Look your best! For starters, go buy yourself some new clothes. Change your perfume or even your hair color. Start paying more attention to your appearance. Wear more makeup, go to the gym.
Men are visual creatures. Trust me, the moment you start with this practice, he’ll think you want to look your best for another man. More importantly, he knows that every man who looks at you will either give you a compliment, ask you out, or at least try to make eye contact with you.
4. Stop showing him that you care
The first lesson your man needs to learn is that you are not dependent on him in any way, you don’t actually need him.
A woman who keeps giving an uninterested man everything he wants is sending a strong message: “Please don’t leave. I can’t live without you.” It may sound romantic, but it’s actually the opposite of what he needs from you right now. You need to show him that you don’t care or that you care less now that he’s on the fence. Stop giving him attention!
Stop doing the things he likes. Your indifference is what should scare him and make him fight for you, because he’s starting to feel like you’re leaving him. This is exactly what happens when a woman stops giving a man attention. I know, it seems like a risky game. The last thing you want is for this strategy to backfire.
But if you keep begging him to love you, it won’t work. This will only make him want more independence and less attention from you. To make an indecisive man want you, I suggest you be willing to take a step back.
5. Stop reassuring him that you are waiting for him, be elusive.
This is one of the mistakes we women make. When we fall in love, our partner becomes the only one that matters. You can’t wait to see him or her and you miss him or her even if you saw him or her a few hours ago. Somehow, you forget your interests, your friends, and even your family.
No man can ever be afraid of losing you if you’re all over him. Being a clingy girl will only make your man take you for granted. If you think you’re too needy, it’s time to change your behavior patterns.
Start with small changes. Stop texting him so much during the day, especially when he’s out with friends. Wouldn’t it be better for him to wonder what you’ve been up to? He’ll think about you more if you ignore him!
You’re probably very available when it comes to making plans or admitting your attraction to him. So now is the time to make him want you. Stop telling him about your plans and sharing your schedule with him.
That’s the cost of independence, after all. He deserves his privacy and you deserve yours. In fact, the less you say, the better. Because he’ll think you’re hiding something from him or that you’re interested in more exciting opportunities, that’s when the fear of losing you really kicks in.
You’re perfectly fine being alone! Most importantly: You know how to be alone. You’re not with him because you’re afraid of being alone. He can’t emotionally blackmail you in any way, because being without him won’t hurt.
