Your relationship seems to be growing, the sex is great, he seems in love. And then suddenly communication problems emerge. He starts to become distant. He pulls away, becomes defensive, and argues.
Maybe he feels less involved because you are dominating the relationship and abandoning the feminine charm. A man will always take for granted a woman who sacrifices too much, who tries too hard to win him over. A woman who is too in love becomes less attractive. But the woman who behaves like this never gives a man the chance to fall in love and desire her.
Many women try to get a positive reaction from a man, but not all of them do it correctly. They make mistakes and push a man away more. It is not always easy to be in a man’s thoughts and make him miss you. If you can follow these tips, it is very likely that you will make him miss you and that his feelings for you will increase so much that he will end up falling madly in love with you.
1. Make him feel like he can’t live without you;
2. Don’t make him feel like he has you too soon;
3. Let him take the initiative;
4. Don’t say Yes every time he suggests something.
For best results, try giving him some space before he starts to get defensive and run away. Once a man learns that you don’t want to control or smother him, he starts to realize that he wants to be with you. He craves your company. Being a little distant and inaccessible can make you even more attractive to men. You instantly become an attractive challenge.
You are about to discover 5 rules on how to make a man miss you:
Rule #1: Stop calling, stop texting, stop!
This is one of the most common mistakes women make. You cling to him or tend to be a little too present. You leave no space between you, which could be the source of his feelings of missing you.
If you want him to miss you, you absolutely must contact him less. The less you are present, the more he will miss you. Simply cut off communication completely. You will resume contact, within a few days, weeks or months, depending on the situation.
Silence makes a man miss you! You can’t miss him if you are always trying to talk to him. The more you distance yourself or are inaccessible to a man, the more likely he is to try to get closer to you. By adapting this strategy to your current situation, you will be able to make him miss you, while making him fall in love with you.
Rule #2: Bring back the mystery!
If he seems bored, it really means he wants more mystery, more challenge, more games, more fun. For example, don’t share everything you’re thinking or feeling, and avoid telling him everything he might want to know or even what he asks. Be unpredictable! Instead of letting him get used to your routine, challenge him with new activities.
Rule #3: Focus on becoming the best version of yourself!
When you take time away from him and detox from his personality, you’re putting the focus back on yourself. Since you’re cutting off all contact with him, you’re taking the time to better yourself. Open yourself up to new perspectives and goals! Start exploring new things.
Show him how much you’ve changed! You’ve become a different woman since the breakup. Feel free to send him pictures of your new life, hobbies, vacations, friends, routines, etc. He’ll love getting to know the “new you”!
Talk about your new life like you don’t want him back. But then, bring up a conversation about the good old days. Let him know you have fond memories of him, no negative associations. Show him that you still care. That he still has a place in your heart. Just make sure to keep things subtle and cute, don’t get needy or overly emotional. Avoid asking for attention and stop trying to make him feel anything. Instead, focus on becoming the best version of yourself.
Rule #4: Don’t underestimate the power of memories!
Have you ever found yourself smiling at work, just because you were thinking about a special moment you shared with him? By sharing and discovering new activities together, you will build a strong relationship and create wonderful memories.
One of the best ways to make him miss you is to make sure that the time you spend together is unforgettable. In addition to enjoying your time together, you are also creating very positive memories. These can help build your love story and make him miss you.
Rule #5: Don’t be available for him all the time!
Make other plans so that he starts to remember how you used to be available for him, but now you have moved on and are busy. Go out with your friends and have fun again, without him. Take up a new hobby. Post your new adventures on social media, where you know he is following you. Let him see how much fun you are having without him by posting lots of pictures. Not being available sometimes will drive him a little crazy.
