To make a man desire you, one of the best techniques is to make him wait. It is not in the nature of all women to be unapproachable, some find it difficult to resist and go too fast in a relationship. Knowing the tricks to be distant while increasing the man’s attraction for you will allow you to become an exceptional seducer!
At the beginning of knowing and dating a man, he will feel stimulated and entertained by you. If you do it competently for him, it will be moments of great pleasure. But for him to consider the idea of dating you in the future, he must not only invest, but also feel that there is a real connection between you.
He must see you as a woman who can truly become a part of his life and, more importantly, think that he can become a part of your life. He wants a woman who is easy to understand and with whom he can empathize; he wants someone who is similar to him in many ways: a woman who presents herself as a good counterpart, who makes others say: “You make a great couple!”
When he thinks about you, does he feel a genuine connection?
Or are you just someone he has only had sex with?
When you are the one chasing a man, the air becomes tense; at a certain point, he feels too uncomfortable and pulls away. That is not what you want: you do not want to condition him to withdraw from you, rather, you want him to be conditioned to come after you. In this article, you will discover how to make a man fall in love more and more every day!
Here are some tips on how to make him fall madly in love with you:
On the journey to conquer the man you desire, take only one step forward, metaphorically speaking, at a time. At the first sign of perplexity or distrust, take two steps back. The principle is that the “two steps back” create desire in him, which instead does not happen when you always take “steps forward.” By doing this, you create more chances that he will be able to come after you.
Once you have created tension, it is time to push back. For example: you do not let him get anything from you tonight because you have to get up early tomorrow. Pushing him away causes a spike in attraction. He will now react more playfully, the situation also creates comfort. He will not have the impression that you are trying to win him over if you constantly push him away.
This will allow him to feel safe while still having fun with you. The push back will make it much more exciting for him when you get back together. He can let the emotional stimulation build, instead of having to tone it down in self-defense.
This is a push and pull technique and, by adopting it, you will notice that he will find it stimulating. You create tension and you stop it! This is why you must immediately disconnect after a phone call or dinner.
Mix up the signals: one day be loving and available, another day tell him that it will never work out between you, but at the same time caress his leg with a finger. Just when he feels most emotionally stimulated or most in need of validation, walk away for a few days.
Attraction is just a tool to be used as bait.
When he stops courting you, reward him with a few fun nights at his place, a flirty text, a cute phone call or a romantic surprise. A pull-back works best right after a strong approach, when he has just experienced a peak of attraction.
This is the moment when he is most likely to chase you back. When you are in a phase of strong attraction, and you want to prolong it with the man you want, you can withdraw the attention you previously gave him. Then, after “punishing” him with silence for a few days, creating doubt and discomfort, come back and send him a signal of interest.
How do men respond to silence and distance? If he were to ask you: “Did something happen? Why did you disappear?” Simply answer him with: “Nothing happened!”, without providing an explanation for your behavior.
Men do not like being forced to wait. Yet that is exactly what you will do. One of the problems that many women experience is impatience. You’ve been waiting all day for his message and when it arrives you rush to respond quickly. But to make him want you, you have to make him wait!
In fact, one of the best ways to be inaccessible to a man is to not respond to his messages right away. Wait a few hours to respond, give him time to check his phone several times. If you can maintain this atmosphere during the courtship and throughout the entire relationship, he will not lose attraction for you.
So the push and pull technique is a way to train him.
This phase is also an opportunity for you to demonstrate your ability to make the situation comfortable again. If you have lots to talk about, and you bombard him with a torrent of fun and interesting topics, demonstrating wit, passion and deep-rooted opinions, you will have succeeded in transmitting your personality.
Men tend to be more attracted to women who they consider similar to themselves in some way. The more things you have in common, the more convinced he will be that you could be the right woman for him.
Here are some ideas to keep in mind during the push and pull technique:
Don’t try to stand out or impress him;
Strive to be a woman of value;
Don’t directly tell him big facts about yourself;
Don’t seek approval, attention, and understanding from others;
Talk about interesting, fun, emotionally engaging topics;
You don’t always have to be right;
Don’t take yourself too seriously.
