Texting a guy you like is exciting! Those first few texts are so exciting and you seem very compatible. But over time, the conversation seems to slow down.
He seems less enthusiastic. Maybe neither of you know what to say. The excitement he had before has faded. Why did things start out so great and then fade away? Do you have to be funny and hilarious all the time to keep a guy’s attention? Of course not!
First, things seem to be going well, but you’re worried he’ll lose interest. I’m going to give you some tips to keep the conversation going so you can learn how to get a man on the phone. So many women try to text a man the wrong way. And without understanding the dynamics of attraction, they make mistakes.
You’re about to discover 14 tips on how to keep a man interested through texting:
1. Don’t send two or more texts in a row! This is the most important advice any relationship expert would give you. If a man doesn’t text you back, don’t send him a ton of texts! He’ll text you when he has time, he won’t if you keep texting him. It will annoy him and push him away.
2. Always be positive. He will be impressed if you can see the good in every situation. Humor is important! If he can sense that you are happy in life, he will be attracted to you. A woman who bores him, stresses him or brings negativity, will turn him away.
3. Don’t overthink your responses. Write down whatever comes to mind and send it. Otherwise, you will come off as needy and stressful and you don’t want that. Texting should be fun, not a stressful experience.
4. Don’t be afraid to flirt with a man, but only when it feels natural. It’s okay to engage in deep and meaningful conversations, but don’t forget to flirt over text if you want to keep a man interested. You don’t have to be afraid of the sexual tension that can build.
But remember, don’t seem too interested in him, he might pull away or just fall into the friends with benefits. Let him lead the flirting. A man usually flirts first and what he wants is to be encouraged to continue.
5. Be the best version of yourself. This is your opportunity to put aside the stress and just be yourself. Sometimes when we like a man, we try to be a person we are not, and that is never a good idea. So, take a deep breath and relax and be yourself.
6. Don’t be discouraged if he doesn’t reply to you right away. Maybe he’s busy with endless things to do. So, he might not be able to reply to you right away. Don’t lose your humor in such nonsense. But if a man replies to you five hours later with a one-word message, then that’s different, he’s not interested.
7. Give him space, no obligations! Don’t text him more than he’s texting you. Don’t share too much about yourself. Don’t have serious conversations about your past, your problems or anything stressful. He needs to have time to associate you with fun chats and interesting conversations. Don’t ask him to reply, let him text and reply to you naturally.
8. Sometimes you’re very busy. And the busier you are, the more he realizes your value. He has to work harder to keep your attention and he will!
9. Find common interests! Talk about the things you actually have in common with this man. This is the best way to get closer to him and create a bond. Finding things in common and focusing on those shared interests works better than anything, any form of seduction or game.
10. You could even do some super exciting sexting! To keep a man interested and wanting to be with you is to spice up your message a little and turn it into sexting. Upgrade your boring everyday messages with some spicy messages to keep a man attracted to you.
11. Always stay positive! Even if a guy doesn’t text you back for hours, which can be quite frustrating, you should try to stay calm and try to act like it doesn’t bother you or even think about it. If you get angry or send him a lot of messages, it can seem desperate.
12. Send pictures every now and then, once you’ve made a connection. Don’t send a ton of selfies! Send him nice pictures that reflect something you’ve both talked about before or a shared interest.
13. Ask funny questions that tease his sense of humor and intellect. Instead of spending too much time sharing opinions and problems, try to engage him in an interesting and fun conversation. Don’t always send him overly serious messages, if you don’t want to bore him. The key to a man’s heart is definitely through humor.
14. Sometimes no text is the technique to keep a man interested. I know it seems like it doesn’t make sense, but trust me, this works like a charm.
If you are always the one who texts first, the one who starts the conversation and the one who texts last, stop texting! It’s clear that he is not that interested in you or that you are boring him. Show him that you are not the one waiting for crumbs of his attention.
