You may have had sex with the man you are interested in a little too soon. I always say, “Don’t have sex with the man you like until he falls in love with you.” He will want to have sex with you from the very first time you meet him.
While I think sex on the first dates is a bad idea, making him wait a few months and testing his patience is really all that matters. When a man tries to seduce you into having sex with you, you still have all the power.
Here are some tips on how to behave after having sex with a man:
Once a woman has sex, she becomes addicted to him, because she connects deeply with him, whereas a man doesn’t feel that way. Sex creates emotional attachment in a woman.
This is why a woman becomes needy, clingy and pushy when she sleeps with a man, but he acts like it’s no big deal.
After sex, don’t get clingy or too cute. And don’t try to insinuate anything about the future. The future is a big question mark and that’s fine with you. All you care about right now is the wonderful experience you both had. Let a man feel comfortable with you.
There’s one golden rule you have to follow: let him talk!
If you’re the only one talking, it won’t be interesting for him. Let him tell you more about himself, because chances are he’ll get a little emotional after sex. Don’t talk too much. Smile, look him in the eyes, to make him feel proud and manly. And then politely tell him it’s time for you to go home.
Don’t stay at his place too long, especially at the beginning of the relationship, you don’t want things to get awkward and he suggests you leave. Always leave early! It can be quite awkward after having sex with a man, especially if it was your first time. You don’t know if he wants you to stay or if you have to go. Tell him you have to get up early in the morning and leave.
How to deal with a man after sleeping with him? Don’t be pushy! After having sex, if you act pushy, asking him some difficult questions, he will probably run away and never come back.
So, be smart when choosing your words, after having sex with a man, because the first impression is the most important. You don’t know what to say or how to act. Focus on having fun, so try to engage him in an interesting conversation.
Appreciate the night you had, but accept that it’s over. After having sex with a man, you should appreciate the time you had together and be okay with the fact that he might not want to see you again.
Not all sexual acts should lead to a relationship and that’s completely normal. He hasn’t made any commitments to you, so you’re single again after a first night with a man. But don’t become a friend with benefits either, that’s not what you do.
Don’t insinuate anything about the future!
There are some women who fantasize about committing right away to the first man they sleep with, but that’s not what happens in most cases.
When it comes to the first time, the last thing a man wants to hear is a serious relationship. Just because you’ve had sex with him doesn’t mean he wants a loving relationship. So, don’t insinuate anything about the future and just enjoy the present.
The next time you have sex, you make it even better. You fulfill his fantasy. You explore his boundaries for sensual and erotic pleasure. You slowly open up to him about the things he’s curious about.
Your life, your prospects, your hobbies and passions. You show yourself vulnerable, just like he has before. The emotional connection then deepens, even as the sex becomes so surprisingly intimate and addictive.
The worst thing you can do after having sex with a man is to act clingy. I totally understand that you may already be in love with him, but don’t show it. He still has to win you over even if you have had sex.
If you act like a needy, clingy woman, he will think that you are pushing him to do things he is not comfortable with and will run away. Instead, pretend that you are okay with the fact that you just had sex, which doesn’t have to lead to anything serious. This will make him curious and start chasing you.
Walk away when he is not paying attention to you!
You are funny when you hear or see him, but at the same time you don’t chase him. You don’t text or call him without him looking for you first.
You will continue to be busy, showing him that you are not available every time he wants to see you. He will have to really put in the effort to see you again. Let him know that you are not yet won over and are still sexy to other men. You dress sexy and look amazing, because that’s who you are.
If he wants you back, you better start giving yourself the attention you deserve. Focus on staying sexy, staying busy and being successful, even if he becomes elusive after the first night of sex. A man needs to understand that your life is complete without him!
