All women dream of making a man fall in love. In fact, you tend to invest yourself completely in the relationship and quickly express your feelings for him.
However, when it comes to men it is not the same story. Very often a man has more difficulty investing in a romantic relationship. He does not express his feelings the way you can and you therefore find yourself doubting his love. It is time to act correctly and differently if you want to be the only one for him!
To know how a man falls in love you need to know male psychology.
When a man sees a woman he likes, he starts thinking, “I like her… I want to get to know her and win her over!” He asks for your phone number or invites you to dinner, he impresses you with his intelligence and attention, he becomes the embodiment of the right man. He seems wonderful and it is really hard to resist a man like that. But if you are too easy to win over and fall in love too soon, he will immediately lose interest.
I know you wonder why he tried to win you over only to leave you after a few dates. Men fall in love in your absence, not in your presence. But they don’t want you to fall in love too soon.
When he is doing everything in his power to win you over, a man wants you to notice his efforts and give him the impression that you like him and then wait for him to win you over.
A man wants to feel like he’s trying really hard to win your heart. Because that makes him feel like he’s trying to win something that’s worthy and not easily conquered.
Men aren’t all assholes who want to accumulate conquests and not commit to a serious relationship. Many men have the same desires and expectations as you. Don’t let your more skeptical friends tell you what to do just because they’ve been cheated on or are making mistakes. With the right attitude, you can make a man fall in love.
You’re about to find out how a man falls in love:
It won’t be in a few weeks that a man will be totally dependent and in love. It depends on a man’s personality, his sentimental and family history and his expectations. So if some men fall in love in 3/4 weeks, others take longer.
A man falls in love in your absence! When he starts thinking about you and wondering what you are doing, this makes him fall in love with you. If you are always attached to him, not giving him space to chase you and think about you, he will not fall in love with you. If you show yourself happy and confident, if you become his best friend, if you do not put pressure on him, you will gain points and show him that you are not like all the other women. It is by creating a complicity that you will be able to attract him and over time make him fall totally in love.
Men want to be challenged!
He falls in love with a woman who knows how to challenge him. He wants you to always have your own opinion no matter what the topic is and to disagree with everything he says.
But if you smother him with love and compliments and don’t let him fight for you, he’ll change his mind and start pursuing something more invincible.
To make him fall in love, you have to put yourself in his situation and therefore put your impressions aside. This way you’ll better understand his actions and needs. Of course, it’s not about denying yourself and forgetting who you are, but simply not expecting him to have the same expectations. He has his own personality and you have to accept that.
A man craves mystery. He craves what you are not giving him. He will fall in love with what he craves the most, but what you are not giving him. If you give him your heart after a few dates, not allowing him to woo you, he will stop looking for you.
He needs time to process his feelings.
He needs space when it comes to feelings. Unlike women, he cannot handle the amount of feelings and affection he might have for you. He cannot understand his feelings when he is with you. Instead, he needs some time alone to process his feelings for you and be able to understand them. He needs to be sure of how he feels about you, because if he is not, he will be confused and will probably give up on his attempts to win you over.
That is why it is important to give the man you want space when it comes to feelings and not force him to express himself when he is not ready. A man will fall in love when he feels ready and not when you want him to!
