If you educate by yourself a boy or a girl, you should know that it can be never too late to get to know and attract a suitable man. Your existence cannot be reduced only to maternal duties. You are a woman and want a complete life! There are men that do not date from principle a woman with a child, but there are also men like exception of rules, having a particular interest in you first.
But even if he is interested in you, he cannot get suddenly interested in your child. Even if you try to create a nice ambiance, it is impossible for him to get soon attached with a child. The saddest thing is that you can feel attraction towards a man who does not like children. If he really does not like children, then there is no chance of pretending to like them.
If you are interested in this man, sooner or later you should get him in touch with your child. But first you should wake up his curiosity to know the child better and fix the meeting date only after. Even if you date a man for more than a month and he is eager to meet your baby, make him wait as you do not know well enough each other yet.
My darling, I recommend to reduce the number of suitable men fitting into the role of “daddy”. Otherwise, you can get confused your child and minimize into his eyes the value of true love relationship.
There are men convinced that a child get a relationship limited. It is already enough pressure around, especially when a man wants to see you as soon as possible. The best thing you can do is getting to know a man who has already his own children. A man in his forties has already at least one. The men with children are more comprehensive towards the situation and will not suddenly lose any interest. I know what means to love your child and make sacrifices for him.
There are men who will not date a woman with a child, because they are convinced that once they approach you, your child entering into his life imposes the feelings of affection and his implication in his education. The strangest thing is that woman often agrees with the decision of child. There are no doubts that this is the most important decision of your life, but you should not get influenced absolutely by child’s point of view.
In order to love the child, the man first should love you. A man loving a woman can do everything for her and taking into consideration that you naturally love your child, he will make everything to show tenderness feelings for child. The man who decided to be with you and assume responsibilities for child, makes it for you and he will put efforts to assure your happiness.
But even being in love, he can experience inner fears, what makes him think again over the situation with a child. He fears to hear the following phrase:” You are not my daddy!”
My darling, this man wants to be the one and only, he want you to get rid of the friends of opposite sex and even of the father of child.
Men are very possessive, thus knowing that there were others before him, he can experience jealousy – first because you were so in love with another that you decided to give birth to his child who you can grow up and with who you will be for the rest of your life. The man will feel happy to find out that you do not see the father’s child, because the biological child is at least far away and the child has nobody to compare him with.
Any man feels threatened in front of any changes. Act cautiously, because he can experience some doubts. Even if he likes your child, he will anyway ask himself what comes after he grows up in adult.
