Can you love two men at once? Certainly, you can. Scene is movie alike: you like a man, date him, but he doesn’t want to assume any responsibilities, you make sex and feel deeply in love. His rejection of any responsibility pushes you to search other men and one day you meet someone else. You find him attractive, you sleep with him and…Bum!
You feel in love with other person! When a woman dates two men she feels confused and lost. I have gone through the same situation, being in love with two men at once some years ago. I had a boyfriend who I deeply love and wanted to grow old with him.
One day I suddenly meet my current boyfriend and fall madly in love with him, although I still loved my ex-boyfriend. I needed some time for the right decision, I was lucky and intelligent enough to have chosen my current man because I’m living a happy love story.
However I don’t deny being for a short period confused and unhappy in the new circumstances. I didn’t want to lose or hurt anyone, being in love with two men. I neither believed nor accepted before the idea of a woman being in love with two men until I got torn myself between two men. When I remember those frustrating days, I didn’t do anything wrong, it might happen to anyone and I was not an exception.
After my experience and all stories I have been told, my answer to this question: can you love two men at one? will be: yes, it’s possible. It’s inevitably falling in love with other man, but you may avoid the story development just by making a step back and stopping flirt. It’s difficult to keep the attention of both of them. Based on my experience, I can say you love two men in a different way. You grow into a woman with dual personality, because you live each emotion in a different way with different men.
Falling in love with two men at once is not an easy experience, a few women can live this. When your relationship faces crisis it is easier to fall in love with someone else.
If you love two men at once, avoid any comparisons. Most women start to compare their new flame with a current boyfriend. It’s absolutely natural feeling that the new man is more attractive, sexy and loving. But is this really true or just a new mask? You’re facing many problems being in love with two men at once.
People and even friend regard in a bad light a woman fallen in love with two men at once. The best thing you can do is avoiding talking about your private life. All of us know it, but just a few women respect this rule.
If you love two men and don’t want to break up with anyone, try talking to one of them before deciding, it can make it easier. The best thing is to choose one of them, but if you feel unable to decide at the moment, try to go alone on holiday, go ahead and don’t speak to any of two, thus you will decide who is your perfect match.
What did I do? I left Italy for a month, I tried my best not to communicate with any of them, thus I understood which one is my right man. Being in love with a man is difficult, being in love with two men at once makes difficulties double. Do what you think is right! It cannot be easier than that!
