To love and feel loved and to commit to a man is the most beautiful thing and therefore it is what everyone seeks one day. That is why since 2008 I have come to the aid of thousands of women and men to enable them to find this love and above all to keep it. However, love can bring surprises. Although this feeling can be wonderful, it can also be a source of disappointment and sadness.
Before we begin to master the art of making him chase you, we will learn why you should never chase him.
It is in the nature of men to hunt, chase, fight and win. If you pay close attention to a man’s behavior, you will notice that he still expresses the desire to win in many different ways. He has an innate desire to conquer a woman and prove that he is worthy of being with that woman.
By letting him chase you, you are giving him a chance to prove that he is worthy of being with you. You are giving him the opportunity to win you over, which is why you should never chase a man, but let him chase you.
Chasing a man who is not interested in you can seriously hurt your self-esteem and self-esteem.
If you need to chase a man, it means that he is not the right man for you. Chasing a man often leads to one-sided love.
When you stop chasing him, you will find that there is more to life than waiting for him to respond or chase you. First of all, it is important that you do not reveal your intentions! The man you want should not know that you are trying to win him over. This will make it too easy for him to think that he has you under control and then the mystery and excitement will vanish into thin air.
When you stop chasing a man, these amazing things will happen:
• He will start chasing you;
• You will enjoy life to the fullest;
• You will let other men into your life.
When you stop chasing him, you will finally feel free and give him some space to chase you. You will allow him to be a hunter. However, if you have been chasing him all this time, then it will take time for him to change his perspective on the situation.
To motivate a man to chase you, you have to add value to your life. The only way to make a man chase you is to fall in love with yourself. You have to be confident, become a high value woman.
If he understands that he can conquer you and have you at any time and with minimal effort, he will not be as interested in chasing you, because this will not make him feel like a winner. Remember, a man needs to feel like a winner, so you have to allow him to feel that way.
This means that you should not make it too easy for him to win your heart. A man will get bored of a woman who:
• Is not passionate about life;
• Is not fulfilling him sexually;
• Is not ambitious or motivated to be more.
If you want him to chase you, become a high value woman, a woman who enjoys life to the fullest. He knows that a high value woman will add so much value to his life and will want to be a part of everything you do. A man knows that such a woman is rare and powerful, and that is why he will try to win her heart. This also means letting him know that he is not the only one interested in winning you over, because the competition is tough.
A high value woman is a woman who presents an exciting challenge, a woman who is confident in herself, or a woman who can take control of any situation.
She doesn’t try to be like other women – she knows she is special and won’t beg for anyone’s attention. She is not easily reachable and her confidence makes her magnetic and attractive. She is naturally sexy and knows how to play up her most attractive qualities.
Here’s how to become a high value woman:
• Show interest in him (but don’t overdo it);
• Build your self-confidence;
• Focus on yourself and your happiness;
• Show him that you don’t need a man to be happy;
• Be mysterious;
• Be an inspiring and interesting woman.
A man will never pursue or commit to a woman who acts clingy, annoying or desperate. A man despises a woman who would do anything for him. Many women still think that doing everything to please the man they love is the strategy to win his heart. On the contrary, doing so is a surefire strategy to make you take him for granted.
One thing to be careful about is making sure that you are not needy or clingy. Asking for his attention will not increase his arousal. You have to give him the opportunity to hope that you will call him, to hope that he will have the chance to see you. He should see that you have a full and interesting life, and that is not the only thing on your mind.
Any woman who acts pushy, clingy or desperate will be taken for granted by the man she loves because, in his eyes, a woman who behaves this way has no value.
