You lose your power in a relationship when you are the one doing all the effort. So it is very important to learn how to make him want to chase you. You have to be the prize he is trying to get. Gone are the days of trying to get a man to pay attention to you and make him want to invest more time and energy in this relationship. You are about to learn the keys to making a man put you on a pedestal and chase you!
“Love me, commit to me, cuddle me, be honest with me, call me, be better to me, meet me, come back to me, ask me out, marry me…” The list goes on and on.
A man does what he wants to do! If you want him to do something for you, it should be something he wants to do. If a man doesn’t want to commit, he thinks he’s not ready… Why stay with him if you want a serious relationship? When he only sees you as a fuck buddy, it’s a relationship where you’ll have to constantly fight to get what you want.
If you want a man to do something he’s not currently doing, these are the factors you need to consider.
You’re about to learn how to get him to chase you:
1. He wants what you want.
If a man never wants something you want from him, that’s a problem. You need to respect what he wants and make sure you want the same. Make sure he’s in line with the same things you want.
2. You need to create an awesome single life.
A man wants a woman who doesn’t need him. He wants a woman who is already happy and can contribute to his life as much as he contributes to hers.
Be the kind of woman he’s looking for. That means becoming happy and confident. That means overcoming your insecurities and facing your biggest fears. That means finding your passions that you pursue. That means being so awesome that a man would be crazy not to want you in his life.
3. You have to connect with him on a deep emotional level.
The reason a man only wants a superficial relationship is because she doesn’t connect with him on a deep emotional level. If you can get beneath the surface and show him that you love, support, and encourage him in a way he’s never felt before, he’ll want to commit to you for life.
4. You need to create, build, and maintain a level of attraction and sexual tension with him.
Attraction and chemistry are not things you should leave to chance. You can create that feeling of wanting to rip off his clothes and have passionate sex. Learn to flirt, tease, and use your voice tone and body language to connect with his sexual urges. If a man is strongly attracted to you, he will be much more aligned to do whatever you want him to do.
One of the questions women ask me when they stop pursuing a man is, “Now that I’m done chasing him, how long do I have to wait and will he notice?” Yes, of course he will notice after a few days!
He will start wondering what happened and why you stopped pursuing him. He is trying to figure out whether he misses you or not. This process may take some time. In the meantime, you don’t want to ruin things by sending a desperate text. My friend, stay strong, confident and stick to the plan.
Keep busy with your life and personal goals. Ignore the man who doesn’t want you. This helps you learn self-control and become more attractive to him. The more you obsess over a man, the more you project that neediness.
The key here is to not make him the center of your attention, but to ignore a man and make him react. Your goal is to avoid telling him that you need him. Avoid wanting his attention or asking for his love. You don’t need a man’s attention to be happy. Focusing on self-improvement is not only good for you, but also to make him miss you.
Be mysterious so that a man wonders! Don’t tell him everything about yourself, keep him guessing. Be mysterious when it comes to what’s really going on in your life. Casually mention something amazing that you’re experiencing in your life and then let him reflect on these new sides of you that he’s getting to know.
Another technique that can help you seem more mysterious is to change tactics just when he thinks he knows you or can predict how you will react. Your goal is to make him think, “Maybe I don’t know this woman as well as I thought!” This is what makes him interested in you, because you seem like a new person.
To make a man chase you, you have to present your best self! If you’ve been feeling unattractive lately, don’t try to get his attention. Focus on becoming irresistible and a real seducer. Dress better and make an effort to become more attractive to yourself and to men. That way, the next time he sees you, he will immediately notice a change.
