Every single man wants a different woman. He wants a unique person, a woman that he would be proud to have by his side. And so the question we have to answer is: How can you be different from all the other women and make sure that this man will want to chase you?
Remember: if you want a man to chase you, you have to show him that you are different from other women. It is about learning to trust yourself. When you know exactly who you are, it becomes easy to become a “high value woman”. From this point on, you will show your personality and your sex appeal.
This is something I say all the time because I see so many women lose their confidence and give up their lives when they get involved with a man they say they love. Unfortunately, this is exactly what makes it easy for him to take you for granted and lose interest.
The key is to be nice, seductive, interested, but not available all the time. Pretend you are busy or hard to get. But the trick is to always smile, flirt, and give him hope that if he tries a little harder, he can win you over. This will give him an adrenaline rush and he will have fun convincing you to give him a chance. This is the secret dynamic that so many men like.
So many women have told me that they just don’t get it. Things were going so well, he seemed attracted and involved, they were making plans for the future, until one day he just disappeared. He says he doesn’t feel the same way about her, he doesn’t want to commit to a relationship right now. Even though he was the one who chased her in the first place. It’s so frustrating…
Why does a guy lose interest?
He’s meeting you for the first time and he wants to impress you. He’ll think, “I want to get to know her, so I’ll do everything I can to make her fall in love with me!”
He’ll try everything to try to attract you, but as humans, we don’t value what we have. The moment he feels like he’s successfully seduced you (because that’s what your actions show him), he’ll get bored and lose interest.
This often happens when you sense that something is off, so you inadvertently start acting needy or clingy. This, of course, pushes him further away from you. The moment he starts taking you for granted, you’re in trouble! The key is to always be a challenge!
If you want a man to chase you, you have to create something special. You have to know your strengths and be confident that you are the best version of yourself.
You have to build your confidence and create an amazing life without him. This can be: exercise, working on your personal or professional goals, spending time with your friends and hobbies. Fill your schedule with things that enrich your life and give you a sense of well-being and you’ll see that not only will you stop chasing a man, you’ll be able to make him chase you.
Find something more important than a man’s love!
A man wants you more when he feels that you have your own life, your own ambitions, your own dreams and your own passions that go beyond the simple pleasures of life. You will immediately be different from other women, who live an ordinary life. Become the woman who makes him want to be a better person.
You will no longer doubt what you have to offer, you will no longer worry that he will get bored with you or that there may be a better woman for him out there. Start changing all these false beliefs that drive love away.
Remember, a man values what he doesn’t have, so make sure you don’t do anything that will allow this man to take you for granted and make sure you live the life of your dreams.
If you want a man to chase you, never stop running! A man not only loves the thrill of the chase or chase at the beginning of a relationship, but he loves it all the time, even after a relationship has become serious. A man may like some routine, but he doesn’t like to settle for a life of boredom. He wants mystery! Let him chase you!
How do you get him to chase you? Stop chasing him!
This doesn’t mean you can’t ever make a first move or be available every now and then. But once he feels a connection with you, it’s time to step back and let him do the talking and chase you.
A man gets off on the thrill of the chase and if you try so hard to “help” him get you, he’ll think it’s too easy. So if you feel like you’re losing control and starting to want to see him more and want his attention, relax. Take some time for yourself and be a little mysterious!
I know how much you want to hear from him when you want some attention, but if he’s not chasing you, you need to stop contacting him first. That means no texts, no calls, and no date suggestions. He has to make the first move!
One thing to keep in mind when you want to get a man to chase you is that humans operate on habit. This means that they will develop a pattern and repeat it unless they learn a new one. Interestingly, you can use this to your advantage because you can essentially teach him a new pattern.
Remember, be careful what you allow because you are essentially teaching a man how to treat you. So if you stop making the first move and inspiring him to reach out and plan things with you, you can start to develop a new pattern.
The more he calls and texts you, the more often you will be on his mind and you can train this type of subconscious response in him.
But it all starts with you. Don’t make the first move. Let him chase you! Give him the opportunity to want to do it and inspire him with the way you are living your amazing life!
Let him see that you are doing interesting things and enjoying life! If you seem boring to him, it will be difficult to inspire him to chase you. He will take you for granted and will not consider you different from all the other women. Unfortunately, this is what stops the attraction process.
