If you’ve spent a lot of time trying to be the perfect woman for a man, then you know it’s exhausting. You end up feeling like you’ll never be good enough for him and that you don’t deserve love. That’s because what you think is the perfect woman for a man isn’t what makes him feel like you’re the right woman for him.
Since you can’t force a man to want you, it’s crucial that you make him want to be with you. If you want a man to commit to you, it’s important to know what behaviors make him want to commit.
It is true that a man is secretly looking for “a unique and wonderful woman”, just like you are looking for a wonderful and unique man.
So why do men seem so hard to get, especially after the first night of sex? If he feels an emotional connection, then why does he suddenly pull away after sex?
Because feeling an emotional connection and having a fantastic and passionate night is the first step in understanding whether you are truly “the one for him” or not. Many women fail at this stage, because they think that the emotional connection has already been established. But in most cases, having sex in the beginning is not enough to pass all his criteria, to be the one for him.
A man wants a woman who is assertive and confident!
This is the woman who takes care of herself and shows that she has confidence, who exudes something special and is captivating. What men are looking for is a woman who shows confidence in herself, who knows how to seduce and who also knows how to play with her charm. You don’t have to change your personality to please a man. It’s important to be yourself, because it’s the fundamental principle of seduction.
He is excited by a woman’s independence and strength of character! A man is attracted to and admires a woman who stands up for what she believes in, even if it is in contrast with what he thinks or says. He is fascinated by her strength and tenacity. When you don’t need him, you have an interesting life, confidence in yourself, this is what creates attraction.
A man may sometimes seem complex and difficult to understand, but he needs a woman who fascinates him, who supports him and who knows how to show herself in her best light. A seductress controls the game of seduction, playing with her charm and knows exactly her strengths, but also how men behave.
To attract a man, stop being boring! Our brain is attracted to people who are interesting, intriguing and engaging. Being boring can push a man away.
A man wants a woman who he is sexually attracted to and he wants a woman who he can have great sex with. This does not mean that you have to look a certain way or fit a certain standard of beauty, by the way!
He wants a woman who is confident in her sensuality, who feels attractive and who wants to have sex with him.
He wants a woman who shows him respect. The right woman also respects his thoughts, opinions and dreams. Mutual respect is essential in a love story. He wants a woman who can bring more peace into his life. Let him know that even the little things that matter to him matter to you too.
An attractive woman is a woman who can create an irresistible attraction and make him fall in love with her attitude, her behavior, but also her body.
But be careful, a physically very beautiful girl, who has no problem capturing the attention of men, is not necessarily a seductress, it takes many more resources to become a seductress. Just because you are beautiful does not mean you are a seductress.
How to become a real seductress
Of course, appearance is the key to becoming an attractive woman. You have to highlight your strengths, but above all be feminine. Wear clothes and perfumes that make you feel sexy!
Feeling good about yourself is a great way to welcome more feminine energy. Wearing clothes that make you feel good about yourself helps you relax and be happy. You have to know how to stand out from other women and for this, improve your look. It is a way to please a man.
If you do not like your image, it does not satisfy you, it is essential to change it. Before thinking about a man, you must first like and love yourself. Otherwise there is little chance that you will obtain that self-esteem that is so important to become a seducer and attract the man you desire.
Use your body language to capture his attention through your movements, but especially your gaze. Once you have captured the gaze of the man you want to seduce, now you have to attract him to you. To do this, it is essential to be cultured, to be able to talk about a large number of topics. Whether it is humor or more serious discussions, you must be able to fascinate the man you want.
A man must pursue you to keep himself interested! This is especially important to maintain his interest in the long term. He wants to be challenged by you. He wants to work harder to get your attention and attraction for him.
But he wants you to be accessible. But you must not be too difficult to attract. A seducer knows how to smile, laugh, flirt and keep a man interested.
