Love is a mysterious feeling. It makes the heart and soul vibrate, it drags us and fascinates us. Often a woman gets lost in this love, she experiences it too much or not enough. And she can’t always be on the same level as the other.
I’ll start by explaining exactly what you should avoid doing if you really want to make an emotionally unavailable man fall in love and fight his fear of commitment. The things not to do are as important as the things to do, so let’s start with what to avoid doing if you want to make him fall in love:
To fix unrequited love, you will have to put your finger on his blocks and understand why he is not in love with you. And only after analyzing the situation will you be able to act in the best way. In fact, this will allow you to implement the best possible strategy to create or recreate attraction and therefore love. To change things, you will have to adopt different behaviors depending on the situation.
You’re about to learn what NOT to do when your feelings are unrequited:
The mistake to avoid: You become unhappy without him. If he knows he’s your only source of happiness, you’re likely to push him away. When you feel unhappy without him, it makes him feel pressured to make you happy. And that’s a big responsibility for anyone! Instead of relying on him to make you happy, open yourself up to life. Do the things you love.
You’ve become clingy. If there’s one thing that turns a man off, it’s a clingy woman. It’s great to be affectionate and show him that you care about him and that he’s on your mind, but when you do it too often, he’ll start to feel suffocated. He’ll try to regain his independence by backing away.
What’s worse is when you let him know that you’re falling in love with him, too quickly. Since a man is looking for fun at the beginning of a relationship, letting him know that you’re already planning your future together will scare him. Instead of showing your feelings too soon, it’s essential that you remain a little elusive and mysterious.
If a man feels that a woman wants more from him than he’s willing to give, he distances himself.
You’re in love with a man, but you feel that your feelings are not reciprocated. The mistake to avoid is wanting to have sex with him to win him over, in the hope that sex will attract him and that he’ll end up falling in love. I insist, you shouldn’t rely on sex!
Although many women think that they can make him fall in love with sex, I guarantee you that it will hurt you. The risk of such behavior is that you become predictable for him and there’s nothing worse than this to decrease attraction.
Another thing to keep in mind when you want to make him fall in love with you is the way you present yourself. Some women make the mistake of thinking that they have to dress a certain way if they want to get his attention.
While it’s true that men are visual creatures, that doesn’t mean you have to be scantily clad when you go out with him. Wear clothes that make you feel sexy and confident, clothes that you feel good in. Wear what you find most attractive and you’ll instantly feel more confident.
To make him fall in love, you have to be the best version of yourself!
One of the keys to making a man want to be in a relationship with you is to live a life that he truly wants to be a part of. A happy and fulfilled woman attracts men like moths to a flame!
Confidence is an attractive quality for a woman to have and it’s easy to spot. If you don’t feel like you’re special or not good enough for him, he’ll notice. Women with confident and positive personalities are irresistible!
Stop trying to make him like you!
If a man isn’t attracted to you, telling him how much you’re interested in him will only make him nervous and push away. And then, he might end up disappearing. Or, worse yet, he might not want to hurt your feelings, so he’ll just drag it all out. Either way, if a man is scared off by you, there’s almost no chance he’ll recover from this. In fact, he probably won’t even want to be friends with you.
Suddenly, you tell him you like him and if he’s not attracted to you, he doesn’t really know what to do about it. He doesn’t want to hurt you, but he also doesn’t want to get close if he doesn’t really feel it. He feels very uncomfortable about the whole situation and now he just wants out of it. So he just walks away and disappears. Trying to convince him, doing nice things for him, or telling him how much you like him will only push him away.
Don’t try to do everything you can when you see that a man is not receptive to the signals you are sending. You need a balance otherwise you offer everything and you will be the only one taking the initiative. The best thing to do when you are attracted to a man who is not interested is to show him that you have things in common and that you are on the same wavelength.
Don’t show weakness and neediness for him!
Never cry for him or let him know that you “need him”. A confident woman who isn’t afraid of a man pulling away from her is attractive. She is magnetic to men who love the competition and the thrill of winning a woman’s heart. Show him that no one can ever take your happiness away. Especially not a man!
Stop chasing him! This doesn’t mean you can never make the first move. But once he feels a connection with you, it’s time to step back and let him chase you, he’ll think it’s too easy.
So if you feel like you’re losing control and starting to crave his attention and time, relax and step away a bit. Take some time for yourself and be a little mysterious.
