After working with hundreds of women, I’ve noticed a pattern of what goes wrong when women chase men. When women chase men, men tend to walk away and let the woman do all the work.
Since you do all the work, most men will appreciate the benefits of getting their physical and emotional needs met without committing. Typically, when a man starts to lose interest, you can tell by his actions. That way, if something is wrong, you’ll know because he’ll become cold, withdraw, or seem less forceful.
You’ve put yourself out there, you’ve shown interest in getting him. The only problem is that it doesn’t seem to be giving you the results you want. You feel like the man you want is ignoring you. But you might want to stop chasing him and see what happens.
In order for a man to truly appreciate something, he has to feel like he is being rewarded for it. This means that most of the time when we value something, we have had to work for it. If you stop chasing a man, you are presenting an interesting challenge to that man.
Stop handing him everything on a silver platter! You should never chase a man! When you chase him, he doesn’t have to do anything. You are at his beck and call, he knows he can get something from you whenever he wants it, and the result is that your value in his eyes decreases.
If you have gone too far and he has reason to feel suffocated, you need to stop chasing. You need to take your attention away from the man you want and focus on yourself. Stop chasing the man you love and watch what happens! Chasing a man does not help you attract love.
He’s not the man you’re looking for! If you end up chasing a man, you might end up getting so caught up in trying to make things work with him that you won’t even realize that he’s not the right man for you.
We always want what we can’t have! A man is naturally attracted to something he doesn’t have because it burns his curiosity. When you spend years, months, or days chasing a man, he knows that he has everything he wants and unfortunately, he still doesn’t see your value.
These actions make a man think that you’re not the right woman for him. The best thing you can do is stop chasing a man. Start focusing on yourself, instead of him, improving your life, and focusing on the things that make you happy.
This is the best way to see a man’s intentions for you, without losing your dignity!
How to Stop Chasing a Man and Get Him to Interest You
If you try to be the best version of yourself, be a physically attractive woman, you will see that a man will be attracted to you. I also want you to think about your appearance. What image are you sending this man? Do you spend time at the gym? Post pictures on social media of all the fun and exciting things you are doing and make sure to show how happy you are!
You have to become a challenge!
What are some places you’ve been meaning to visit? What activities sound fun that you’ve never tried? Now’s the time! Interested in a class? Start planning!
Make your life more attractive than it’s ever been. The goal is to boost your self-esteem and inspire the man you desire to want to be a part of your life. In short, you want to give him more reasons to want to come to you!
If you’re focused on this man and he has a reason to pull away, then it’s important that you stay true to what you want in your love life. Take this time to reevaluate who this man is and why you like him. If you decide you want to build a romance with him, then I suggest you wait and let him come to you, and then you can show new changes.
Men appreciate women who put in the work. And the flip side of that is that men tend to take women for granted when women do all the work.
You deserve to be a man’s priority. You deserve a man who loves you! Let him put in the work, chase you, and show you that he’s the one for you. And don’t settle for anything less, because that’s how you get into a great relationship.
To attract a man, stop chasing him and see what happens!
You don’t have to ignore him completely. You don’t have to be available at his beck and call all the time. And if he suggests doing something together, you shouldn’t cancel your pre-existing plans to see him. You can suggest another day! You have your own things going on and your world doesn’t revolve around him.
If a man feels like he’s the only thing you care about, he’ll lose interest. There’s no challenge, there’s nothing to work towards. Think of yourself as a prize!
