Is it possible to bring back a man who has practically scared him away? Is it possible to say to a man, “Can we start over? Forget everything I’ve said or done and let’s start over.”
Sometimes friends will tell you, “Forget about this man, you deserve better…” . Without remembering the simple fact that your heart loves the one it loves. Only you know what you want. Do you still love him? The relationship wasn’t toxic. You made some mistakes and made him run away, but you want him back, you want this love story to be saved.
The problem was that you were chasing him and trying too hard to win him over. This sent him strong negative signals that you are trying to romance him and make him commit. His natural inclination is to resist, especially if you try to win him over. Stop chasing a man and focus on reversing the energy in the story.
You are about to discover some tips on how to get a man to chase you:
To get a man to chase you, the first thing you should know is to be patient. Remember that special things don’t happen overnight and that you should wait for some time before he reacts.
I know you are madly in love with him, but don’t be pushy and clingy, because he will immediately lose interest in you. A man works that way, so don’t be surprised if he started ignoring you when you were acting clingy and needy.
Be less available. If you have been chasing him and turning off his interest in you, it’s time to STOP doing what you were doing and go the other way. Stop being available for him and get busy doing other things you always wanted to do. Pretend that you broke up with him, but you are still his friend. This is the distance you need to show him that the dynamic has changed.
You’re not mad, but you’re no longer available. You have feelings for him as a friend, but the romance is over. Something funny will start to happen. He’ll feel like you’re too busy to pursue him anymore, and that will pique his interest. Your value in his mind will increase again. That means he’s back to square one and will miss the romance he took for granted. He’ll want it back, and that’s part of the attraction.
Showing friendship is the kindest thing you can do and the sneakiest thing you can do at the same time. He’ll wonder if you’re still interested in him, but he won’t get a clear answer in return.
Give him time to be confused. Let him wonder why you stopped pursuing him. Let him know how much he misses the attention. If you chased a man and then he pulled away, don’t give him the gift of forgiveness, comfort, or security. Give him the gift of confusion by pulling away anyway and NOT explaining.
Usually what happens is that he gets confused, worries and then chases you again. Making sure there is still mutual attraction. This brings us to the next point.
Many men will get bored of a relationship when a woman reveals everything to her within a few weeks (including sex). This is why long-term relationships require long-term courtship!
Let him know that you have other options. If he sees that you are always attached to him, he will definitely not be as interested in you. He needs to think that you have other options too. In order for him to be attracted, he needs to think that he has tough competition. Have fun with other men and go out with them. Make sure he sees that he is not the only man in your life and that he has to fight for you.
To win a man over, project more mystery, less mothering. It’s no coincidence that he seems more intrigued when you’re mysterious, not so transparent, and give off that “What’s going on in her head?” vibe. These are simple things, yet they can drive a man crazy.
This man will start analyzing the signs that you still like him. He’ll continue to be puzzled as to why you’re always withholding information. When you choose not to share stories, you keep him guessing. This just makes him work harder for that level of intimacy.
Create an interesting life! It’s time to make your life more attractive. Men FALL in love with a woman’s personality and the life she’s created for herself.
That’s why men always look for women who do good things, help people in need, are kind to their family and friends, have exciting careers, have amazing hobbies and artistic skills, and that kind of thing. Become irresistible if you want to keep a man interested in you!
Your personality is partly shaped by the things you do and the things you find interesting. Improving your life is the best way to make a man want to chase you, because he realizes that you are not just interesting, but a truly extraordinary person.
Be the best version of yourself!
You have to show him that you are confident and happy with the life you have. Be the best version of yourself, both physically and mentally. Always be attractive when you are with him, so he will realize what he is missing. Talk about interesting things and smile, so he can feel that you are enjoying life.
The simple equation when it comes to chasing: one person must perceive a higher value in the other person. If you can work on improving your image and projection, he will soon discover that you have special qualities and that you deserve all his attention.
