The best way of getting to meet a new man and to make yourself a favor is getting subscribed to a fitness club. The main reason for the subscription is keeping your body fit. Physical exercises reduce stress level and increase the longevity of life, also improve general health condition, the increase of self-respect – thus you will feel more self-confident when you meet up another man.
My darling, if you are lonely and searching for a new friend, this place is exactly the place you need. If you think it will be better to head for a disco club or another place in order to meet new men, then it would be better to attend a new fitness club, because you pay the all amount in a place and you should order at least one drink, while in case of attending a gym club – you can be sure that health is priceless and you are the one to manage everything and you can continue talking on the sport carpet. Even if you do not know anybody, you will make sure being in harmony with yourself, becoming more confident.
You can spend at the disco Friday or Saturday evening, and the next morning laying in the bedroom. You probably stayed leaning on the wall or with friends on the sofa hoping that a nice man will get closer to you.
The men like self-confident women that can take care of themselves. They enter in a club with a determined purpose: TO HOOK A MAN.
Many women make the error of going to fitness club with headphones. If you want a man discuss with you while you are exercising, I ask you to leave apart iPad and headphones, if you are willing to develop a spontaneous discussion. And do not put on a t-shirt that will hide your bottom. Some women head to the club like they put on a knight armor.
At a club, after exchanging some jokes or a couple of words with a man, this usually asks for your phone number. You possibly ask yourself, if it is suitable to give your phone number. My recommendation: give him your phone number after the first date. Do not trust anybody to give your phone number, you do not know well enough the man you have met yet, you can bump into someone not accepting rejections, a clingy type or even a rapist.
The best thing you can consider is to give your phone number, thus you will be in an advantageous position. You are free of your doubts, in case he calls you or hides your number in the archive.
The best thing is that you can kill him in a suitable moment for you. After all, they get to hear our voice and increase the volume, while we keep a calm intonation. The first impression is the most important. If the first call lasts more than usually and you seem to have reciprocal goals, but you ruin everything by revealing your past relationships and even the things exciting you in the bedroom, then do not get surprised if he disappears.
The Seducer, the man so much loved and at the same time hated by women, usually contacts a woman in 2-3 days after having got her number, willing to show that he has his own business and thus avoiding to show too much interest. This kind of gesture gets the woman annoyed so that he has managed to caught her attention, and she is worried and insecure in case he gets in touch with her. When he finally makes the final contact, we are jumping of joy and are ready to give him everything because we are more interested.
But if the man contacts you excited in a few hours after meeting you, this also can be perceived as alarm bell. You probably think:” I gave my number to this clown some hours ago, he probably had no woman for years.” You will probably not call him back, nor provide a reply.
What can you do, if a nice man gazes at you without saying any word?
Many women never dare to approach a man, from shame or pride considerations, even if this is the man of their dreams. They prefer to put headphones on and to get attached by fitness carpet, hoping that he will be the first to approach her, instead of being more courageous and make the first step.
My darling, never be afraid of getting closer to a man in order to say something to him. Get closer to him, look straight in his face and tell him:” Hi, how are you?” He will probably reply to you with a smile on his lips and will ask to make you a company. Men like to feel useful, offering to you a place in his car or starting a discussion, because rarely a woman decides to approach them first, hoping to receive something from you. If you make it clear that you are interested, he will start analyzing you in a more detailed way.
